Bensetler- Robert J. Jr. "Bob", 61, of Oakland, NJ, formerly of Wyckoff and Cresskill, passed away September 30, 2019.  Bob is survived by his partner, Janet Paretti; his mother, Shirley Bensetler; his son, Robert Bensetler and his wife Jessica Bensetler; his daughters, Shannon and Bobbie Jo Bensetler; his sister, Shari Pannone and her husband James Pannone and their two children Juliana and Michael; his granddaughter Emmalyn.  He is preceded in death by his father, Robert J. Bensetler, Sr.; and his brother Anthony Bensetler.  Bob was a lifetime member of the Cresskill Fire Department and an avid fisherman.  A memorial visitation will be held on Sunday, October 6, 2019, 3:00-7:00 PM, at the Oakland Memorial Home, 330 Ramapo Valley Rd, Oakland, NJ.  Cremation is private